“I want to live my life so that my nights are not full of regrets.”
David Herbert Lawrence
So the saying goes “Regrets are a waste if time.”, but yet we all have them. Whether it be in our professional lives or our personal lives there are always those things we wish we could have a do over on. Something that we could have done differently that may or may not change an outcome or where we are today. Love em or hate em regrets are here to stay so I wanted to share a few regrets of my life that I wish I could get a mulligan on.
Professionally I wish I could have realized my full potential more often. I remember in high school and in college someone would always tell me “you are so smart but you never live up to your full potential”. Whenever someone tells me that I set out to prove them wrong and for a time I do and I show that I can be the best at a lot of things if I put my all into it. But after a while I fall back into the easy going mentality of just coasting by and not doing my best because I know that i can “get by” by doing the normal. I guess most of my life has followed this pattern and I wish I could have a reset button on my high school era so that I could change this mentality from the roots.
Personally, it’s a lot harder to pick out a regret that I have. i mostly carry out my life under the mantra that karma is a bitch and what goes around comes around. It has shaped me into the respectful man I am today and I would not change that one bit. My one true regret personally would be that I don’t live life to the fullest which can lead to missing out on great opportunities in life. I tend to play it safe because nothing bad will happen that way…but it will. Regardless of how safe you play things, bad things do happen to good people regardless of how good they are. If I had it to do all over again I would have taken many more chances as a young adult to do things which were out of my element and get myself out of my comfort zone.
Well those are my regrets and even though they are a waste of time I will still dwell on them. If your regrets are something that you can change at this present moment you should go for it. Later on in life don’t look back saying you should have…say you did.